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Permalink 🤘 2025 July 12

I was telling my fiancée, some time ago, that when she listens to recordings, she’s only getting HALF the music. I described it to her as the difference between us texting and calling, versus actually being there with each other…

Going to Rootstock at the Icehouse after the Giant Pencil Sharpening block party, that was an electrifying experience. Up until I moved to Minneapolis… the only live performances (outside of the Joyful DJ Bike Raves) I’d seen up close was a production of The Producers done by my local hometown theatre, and some performance of Randy Newman somewhere in or near L.A. (or was it Hollywood?) when he clearly had a cold. I remember the former only dimly (though I did enjoy it), and the latter even less so; I was only a child, and I possibly was too short to see much. The two biggest things I remember of that The Producers production were the orchestra tuning prior to the start of the play, and the performance of the woman playing Ulla. Since Rootstock, I’d been FOMOing into every live music event I can get my hands on.

Listening to music, for me, for the longest time, was a solitary event. Me in my room, with a pair of headphones. Half the time, I was doing homework during it. I didn’t really know what music was like. I didn’t know it was any different.

Now she’s involved in amateur theatre… It’s different, so different. How many people are like me, having grown up never seeing a concert in their life? You miss out on so much. I, personally, would have lost my fucking mind if I saw BABYMETAL and KINGSLAYER perform live.

Goddamn.

   🥱 2025 July 12

I know that I’ve got stuff to do later in the morning, but I still don’t want to go to bed. My fiancee’s just gotten back from doing all her chores an’ I wanna spend more time talking to her…

   💩 2025 July 12

I love how even after all this time, we’re still shitting on Frieren. It is the gift that does not stop giving.

   💀 2025 January 20

Fiancee went to her local book club and was disappointed to find it was all horny women talking about their favourite smut rofl

   🐠 2025 January 19

Sent the marine biologist Yaen’s “Fish Fight!”. Nerd. She’s asking why I have this

   🤣 2025 January 11

Fiancée: “My body is killing itself from the twerks…” Me: “You don’t need me to blow out your back. You did that yourself.”

   ❄️ 2025 January 4

OK. I guess I’m relaxing now after watching the fiancée beat Klonoa: Door to Phantomile. Wish it weren’t so cold right now. Winter…

   👀 2024 December 31

Just finished reading Chrysalis, a sci-fi novella originally posted on r/HFY 8 years ago. Recommended by my fiancée and loved it. ❤️

   ❤️ 2024 December 30

Told my young fiancée that she’s too hard on herself: she’s “a mammal in progress”. She works hard to better herself, and I appreciate that.

   📚 2024 December 25

One of the things I cherish about my fiancée is that we can have broad-ranging and frank theological and philosophical discussions together.

   💔 2024 December 25

Half-way done working on this mixtape for my fiancée… Oooh, all this J-Pop from my younger days. Am I seriously that old?!

   ❤️ 2024 December 23

Sometimes all a man needs is to lie down and talk to his girl in bed. Just. Talking. I haven’t had a good nap like that in a looooong time.

   🌈 2024 December 22

Hearing the fiancée practice her Japanese brings a smile to my heart. She’s very capable, and learns quick. Works very diligently, always.

   🌙 2024 December 21

Making plans to go to the Bakken Museum on Sunday. But to be honest, I hate going out without my fiancée. I hope her VISA is approved soon.

   🪷 2024 December 20

It’s been a joy watching my fiancée begin to blossom in her essay writing. I love getting to know her and her thoughts through her writing.

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